1yr Anniversary Blog

The url for the 15yr old being beat by the houston cops: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JlKmiPCVStc

Valentine's Day

I used to hate this day with a passion. Every time this holiday came around I never had anyone to be with. The one time I had a valentine, that person was with me out of pity. He made me hate it even more. But what is this holiday's real point?

To me, why do you have to have this one day where you show someone you love how much you love them? Shouldn't you show love to people all the time, 365, 24/7? I really think its just a way for the greeting card companies to get more money.

Well, since I have matured, having someone (boyfriend) around to buy me something is not something I long for. I finally got this love thing down. I'm already loved by my family and friends. The one thing I miss about this holiday is when I was a kid my grandparents would buy me a Carvel ice cream cake.I don't need any man to validate who I am as a person. When he comes, he will let me know.

I went out with a group of my girlfriends and I had the time of my life. We didn't bash men, we just enjoyed ourselves and ate a lot. I hope you all have a great day and remember 1 Corth. 13:4-7 tells the true meaning of love. I would love to know how you day went. Or tell me what was the best Valentine's Day you ever had. Thanks!

Entertainment Performances

So, last Sunday during the Super Bowl Half-time the Black Eyed-Peas performed with Slash and Usher. I enjoy the Black Eyed-Peas' music, but that was a crappy performance. Slash and Usher should have done the show without them. The other people that did a good job were the dancers around the stage with the lights glowing on them. When they were synchronized, it looked beautiful.

At times I wonder if there is real talent anymore. The people with the least talent are pushed up front while the ones with the talent are just looked upon. I also think it is a shame that people sell there souls just to be on top. People get pimped out or they pimp themselves out for fame. Is that what society is all about now? Have we pushed our morals to the back so that we can look good on the outside?

A lot of great talent have died and can never be replaced. Luther Vandross, Michael Jackson, Otis Redding, Marvin Gaye, Florence(from the Supremes), Gerald Levart, Jackie Wilson, Rick James and James Brown are all gone. I know there is a great concert in heaven going on right, now! James Brown changed the course of music by creating and composing musical arranges to 1/3 which is 1 bar per 3 beats.

I'm so hoping that the Grammy awards aren't going to be boring this Sunday. I know they are going to have a big tribute to Aretha Franklin as the opener. Its a must see because Jennifer Hudson will be performing in it.

If you were to put you ultimate concert togther, who would be in it dead and/or alive?

Can Women Get Along With Each Other?

I want to talk about a subject that has been on my mind for a while. Now, I'm no prissy chick, I love my sports and just chillin. The one thing I can't understand since elementary school is that some girls/women just can't get along with other girls/women. I always couldn't figure out why many girls at school hated me. I mean they hated me to a point where I didn't even want to go to school and I started hating myself. As, I have grown up I realized so many things about other women, it seems funny.

To me, I think some women are very caddy to one another. Its as if one has to bite the shit out of all the other pups just to be called the "top bitch." Some feel we(women) all have to look one way just to be called beautiful. If we look too eccentric,then we are the black sheep of the group.The other thing I observed is, once we are in a group, we become very clickish. One chick is the dominate and she becomes the head of the group. The other chicks seem to have no opinion of their own and just seem to think the exact way of the dominate. Its as if the dominate is held up on a pedestal.

Now, when men get into the equation, its like we as women are going in for our last meal.We do all these crazy things to look a certain way, for other women? Its like women want you to love to hate them. She wants you to look at her and think,"Yes, I have a man, but I can also get your man,too." Everything is a competition. We poke our chest out, walk around with much arrogance, and we are oblivious to the world around us. Why do we have to look as though we are desperate to get a man? Why do we have to always chase our friends man? Why do we feel the need to make one woman look bad just to get a man?

To me, I think that women can get along, just as soon as some women start feeling defensive towards one another. I think we as women can get along as soon as we realize that having a man is not everything in life. I think, women can get along. What do you think?